Happy Anniversary #39

Dear Family,

Its been a while since I have posted to this blog.  Facebook kinda replaces this, but actually I want to print up this blog, so I am going to post a bit again now.  

 

 Short version:   Today is special because it is our Anniversary of 39 years.  Also it is the 3rd anniversary of my sister Jill's passing.   When I think of part of the traditional marriage vows… "For better for worse, richer or poorer … in sickness and in health…".  We certainly are experiencing this.  But these few weeks are really just a blip on our calendar.  I watched as Casey and Jill lived her last 4 years dealing with cancer.   So my prayer is still "thank you Lord for 39 years.  And let us make this time the best it can be"  Next year #40  i think I would like to party.  ( and go on a family trip too)   

LONGer VERSION:  Today Fritz and I Celebrated our 39th Anniversary with just a little flair.  Even though we are at home to keep Fritz as comfortable as possible during his eye surgery recovery, I wanted to do something special today.    The romantic in me likes a pretty setting.  I set out the dishes my Grandmother gave me as a wedding present, and I went and ordered dinner from one of our favorite places and brought it home.  We had a little sunset dinner looking out to our own yard.  I used the napkin rings that belong to my grandparents too.  Laure and Henry  were married 53 years before he died and survived separations in WW1, WW2 and all kinds of difficult times and changes in their lives.  My Grandfather also escaped from his camp in WW1 and made his way by foot at night for 3 months from Poland to Belgium to find my Grandmother again in 1918.   So going back to Fritz, when I married him, i believed I had found someone I could be married to 50 years like my grandparents.   I wanted the real thing!   What I have come to realize is that the Lord is the one  I need to depend on.  His faithfulness to us carries us through the good times and the not so good times.   

 "For better for worse, richer or poorer … in sickness and in health…".  We continue on ….  

Last night we also had the visit of wonderful friends from church  Dave and Kim Newton.  It was good to catch up with them and they blessed us with their prayers and fellowship.   I gotta see the funny pictures they took.    For those of you not on FB, Here is the picture I put on my page. I made that dress and I still have it.  French Lace of course.  I used it later for dress up costume for Rachel and Carrie growing up.  I don't even try to put it on now.   

    Happy Anniversary Fritz!    You keep me smilin"  

Happy fall.   

The leaves are falling here in northern California, and the warm days are suddenly very crispy and cool.    I am headed back to Santa Barbara today, after 10 days up north in Pleasanton/Livermore.  Fall reminds us that life goes on,  the colors of the leaves change and there is a beauty like no other time of year.  I love the Fall!    Each year I usually experience this more by going to Kansas City and seeing all the red leaf maples, or to Mammoth with the beautiful yellow Aspen trees.  But this year was different.  

I have had a new adventure of sorts.  Anyway, it has been a new experience for me anyway.  But I guess our lives are all an adventure, so this is just mine. 

 The last 10 days. I have been the " Mama Bear" as we would say remembering my Mom. My sister Jill asked me 2 years ago to be the "Mama Bear" for her girls when they had their babies since she could not be here.  Our Mom came and stayed with each one of us when we had our babies.  ( and she had 12 grand babies).   Sooooo here I am, and what an amazing experience.   My neice Bonnie has had her 2nd baby, a little boy named Colby.    Since she would be in the hospital for 3-5 days with a csection I came up to care for Casen her 1  and 1/2 year old while his Mommy And Daddy were in the hospital having baby brother #2.  That was an experience in itself.  Hanging out with a one and 1/2 year old  Casen, day  and night is something I will never forget.  So much fun!   And so much constant attention!   I totally enjoyed myself and I totally am thankful I had my kids when I was young!  We hung out at the parks,  walked the dog, played lots of games,  cooked and cleaned and visited the hospital to meet his little brother.  It was pretty exciting.  

 I am so glad that I did this also.  With tears I choke up remembering my sister Jill.   We have so many lessons of life we learned together growing up and the lessons from her life as she endured the cancer treatments and operations over 4 years.   Most importantly I remember her selflessness.   No matter how bad she felt someone was always having it worse and she reached out to them --Meals, a hand, a friendship call,  whatever she could do.    Jill was always there.  Together we were able to pull together so many family reunions over the years.  Getting 12 Grandkids and their family all together plus my Uncle's family is no easy task.   But we did do it together, and now we see the fruit of pulling together and supporting each other.  

Something else that touched me last  week was at her church Cornerstone.   The pastor talked about Nehemiah and reaching out into your commmunity and family.   I realize how in our family over many generations,  we have reached out to each other.   Over the years acts of selfless caring for each other is the glue that helps make our family close to each other and want to stick together.  For me to see how God has used me in other lives touches my soul.  We truly are HIs Hands reaching out to our own family and friends.  ( My Nehemiah lesson). 

One more thing,  today the birthday day of my "Bonne Mama".  My Grandmother Laure Scribe  was born Nov.4 1894.  Quite a long time ago.  But I remember her a lot these days.  I have translated her memories ( 200 pages)  into the beginning of a book.  If you read this far, then perhaps you would enjoy the book I am working on.  I am only to chapter 8 at this time.  I have re edited 1894- 1918.  More to come.  Check out BonJourBonneMama.com    Let me know what you think.   Its been a work in progress for the last 2 years.       Love to all especially to my family.   LH

Hello End of Summer,

It has been a very busy time since my last post.  August and now September has seen us all over California and now we are in Hawaii.   What a privilege to be able to travel like this.  We are enjoying the life we have together for this period of time.   For myself, I will try to catch up.

Since Fritz and I have this new old 1927 Buick, it has been fun to experience different car shows.  The biggest one we have ever hear of is the Grand car show of all in Carmel  August 15-20.  We joined some friends up there to see 100's of fabulous old cars, and watch the Vintage car show at Laguna Seca.  Included is a picture of Fritz next to a car originally owned by Steve McQueen a favorite  movie star of the "Great Escape".    Then we were up to Napa to visit with my sister Nicky and her husband Tom.  We cruised the river in their boat.  Then the next day we made our up to the Sierras to Lake Tahoe.  The peacefulness of sitting on the lake, watching the clouds, stand up paddle, or birds cruise through the skies was just heavenly.  We were able to see my cousin Laurie, and her husband Justin, and play with their little one Leo.  Then off to Mammoth and our cabin maintenance times.  Fishing for Fritz,  lake side for me again.  Biking and Hiking are my favorites here.    We headed home in time for a boat cruise in the harbor.  and visit with many friends.   Needless to say, "we were never home", it seems.

So now at the end of August we prepared to make a special trip to Orange county.  It was Steve 's 60th and we had very special plans for him.    On Saturday of Labor day weekend, we had a first ever gathering of all the Harnsberger's.  19 of us.  Steve's kids came down from Idaho and made this "the big surprise".  Jennifer and Link's family and our family complete all the Harnsberger's that we know.
Soooooo special.  What a day! Steve's surprise was his little grand daughter Erica walking up behind him and tapped him on his shoulder and said " Hey Mister, will you come play with me?"   He turned around wondering what was up, saw his Grand daughter and all his kids who had walked up behind him.  Needless to say , we were all full of happy tears for Steve to be with his family and share this moment with all of them.

A few days later Fritz and I were off to Hawaii for our 38th anniversary.  We had a few days with my nephew Kyle and  his Aimee in Oahu, visited the USS Arizona National Memorial park, and had a nice afternoon on the North Shore.  2 places we had never been to.  Then on to Maui and a very restful quiet week with surf, sunsets, turtles,  and beautiful beaches.  Fritz is off surfing right now.  We especially love the warm waters, compared to our cold ones in SB.

In the midst of all this, my dear cousin Chuck Robert's, Harriette's husband passed away early in the morning of Sept.4.  from stomach cancer.  He was a very dear man, gentle, loving and a wonderful father to 4 great kids.  I had a chance to walk around the hospital floor with the two of them  before we left on our trips. I (we) had no idea he was so close to his final days.  He always said good bye with a kiss to the cheek, a sweet comment and a thank you.  His passing included the most beautiful sunset of the year in Santa Barbara, surrounded by his family.  What a special tribute to a special guy.


I remember summers of the Past 1990, 1996, 2000 and 2006  that particularly stick out in my mind.  I think this is one of the those summers also.  Life is very full, and every day has special joys or sorrows.  I am intent on thinking, remembering, and learning from it all.  I am glad for this time of reflection that I have each day in Hawaii. and I am making the time to write and reflect.  I am also writing my Grandmother's memories -- "Bon Jour Bonne Mama".  I am sure my past English teacher/nuns would be shocked to see this.  I was never the creative writer.  But God Rest and Bless their souls.    So if you have read this, you are really reading my personal reflections.   I am thankful for my life and what I can enjoy.  Yet the greatest joy comes form helping others,  Being a part of their lives also.  Reaching out, and forgetting about myself, and letting God use me to touch someone.  An elderly, an invalid, a toddler, and young mom, or one of the special ladies at the rehab center where I volunteer each week.   That's where my ministry lies,   I remember one of the early bible studies Kate Smith taught on Titus 2"  The older shall teach the younger".  So this is where I am in life now.    I enjoy the travels,  and being places I have never been.  But more importantly are the friends and people we meet.



   Billowing clouds,  rainbows and sunsets are a part of our days, each day here in Maui.  It truly is a paradise here.     Thank you Lord for each day you have given us.

Hugs and Kisses to everyone,

Lorette  

Hello Summer blogger friends,

It has been a very busy summer this year.  We have had lots of company and friends and places and things to do.  I am very blessed by the opportunities we have had.  

In June we had a relaxing trip to Mammoth, our only trip so far.  Then a nice Father's day weekend with Tina and Ryan, and next a birthday weekend with Rachel and Johan and all their friends.  

Then in July we Celebrated the 4th by being in the Montecito Village 4th of July parade, as you can see from the pictures.  Carrie and her family were with us for the week.  What fun we had.  

The following weekend, Fritz had a boat trip and I attended the French festival with a dear friend Nichole..  Next we had company with old friend and new friends who stayed in our studio the rest of the month.  Tina and Ryan were up again  for his birthday,  And next we made a trip down to San Diego which included a visit with Grandma and Steve, visit and dinner with the kids, Horse races in Del Mar, Art shows in Laguna Beach, checking in with Phil and all his hard work on his house, and more visits with friends down south.    Day in and day out, we have been blessed with many friends and family visiting.  

August has started with a big Fiesta weekend.  Lots to look forward too this month.    Its been great to be in Santa Barbara so much this year instead of our usual driving back and forth to Mammoth or up north.  Though we missed having a family reunion this year in July, we are all looking forward to September and our next family gathering for nephew Sean's wedding day.    

Memorial Day Memories 2012

May 28, 2012
Happy Memorial Day!           ( American Cemetery -- Normandy France)
 
 " Greater Love has no man than to be able to give up his life for another".  I am thankful for the note today at church addressing how it is important to remember those who have been lost, giving their lives for the life of others.   Being a student of history and WW2 I have learned so much about all the wars that have been fought, and are being fought now.

Memorial day brings back memories for me of going to Forest Lawn in Glendale for the Memorial day services.  Both my Grandfather's fought in WW1, with my Bonne Papa  a prisoner of war through most of 4 1/2 years. 1914-1918.  My Father and his brother served in WW2 and my brother was in Boy scouts earning his Eagle badge then.  I have a picture in my mind always of the 3 generations walking forward and saluting the flag.  My brother was the bugle player then.
This is how I spent my birthdays growing up.  I am a Memorial day baby.  And now after all these years its pretty special to think I can celebrate my birthday on such a special day.

One of the most touching places I have ever been is the American Cemetery in France, above the Omaha beaches of DDay.   I went there in 2004 with Rachel and 2 of her friends.  There were over 350 unknown soldiers here.  Young men who were never able to see their families again, or perhaps even have a family.  As we were walking around I met 2 such elderly men, who had actually landed at the DDay beaches.  I don't remember their names now.  I think one was Jack.  He had landed on June 6 or Day 2.  The other elderly gentleman had landed one week later.   They were touring with Operation Overlord I believe.  It's a tour group that took former Veteran's on battlefield tours with their families.  They had been to the Dover shores, and now were in Normandy.  What an experience for all of them.  I am sure they are gone now, almost 8 years later, but the memory lives on.

Back to my story though now.  I had said thank you for serving.  I was honored to meet them, heroes from WW2.  ( I just think of every VET as a hero).    They told me they were not the heroes.  Those men buried there in the fields were the heroes.  They had given the ultimate sacrifice.  They  had had lives well lived.  Families, children and grandchildren.  These men in the field, each buried under one of the white crosses never had a chance.  They are the heroes.  And their were there to honor the fallen heroes.

  I remember my Dad,  my grandfathers,  and Uncles.  My Dad was in transportation Corp in Belgium for the Bulge.    Uncle Clem was a tank driver, and was in battles from  Cherbourg all the way to Germany and VE day.  Uncles Joe, Clem, and Uncle Mike were in Battle of the Bulge.  Joe was shot the first day in battle, but survived.     I think about those who did not make it back.  My Uncle Alain, Mom's brother, who died because he was part of the Belgian Resistance.    He lived for 2 1/2 years in the concentration camp system, as a laborer.  He was sent to a camp called Sonnenberg a political prisoner camp.   He never made it back.

  I do remember, and I honor these men because they understood the meaning of serving their country.
Now today. ....   Memorial Day, I like to reflect back on that time.  I understand better now than I did as  young girl.  Do remember those who have gone before you.  It's not depressing  but honoring.    I am glad to have the memories of different Veteran's events honoring our fallen.  And I am glad to share my birthday with such an honor. 

And I will pray for those who are serving us now.  Especially Cousin Charlie!     That is an honor too.     LH

Our Boston Trip May 2012

Our Boston trip now comes to a close.  Getting ready to hurry and wait.  We are on standby for an earlier flight back to LA.    We shall see if we are so lucky. It's overbooked by one right now.  Sooooo  I thought I might as well take the time to reflect about the week.  

Looking back -- Friday.....

I think one of my highlights of the week was browsing the art galleries of Boston with Dorian on the famous Newton St.   We saw so many beautiful examples of different types of creative expressions in art.  I loved many of the galleries we went to.  But we only got to 2 blocks worth of galleries  before it was time to head back to our apartment.  Fritz took us for a nice sail in the little harbor near the Boston Half shell.  ( and MIT  sailing center).   Then off we went to Graduation for Johan.    

This last Friday  was filled with fun, and friends for Johan and Rachel.  After so many 1000 of hours of research and writing and editing,  Johan is finally a PHD.  Onward to be professor hopefully soon.  He is in the process of applying to different fellowship options.   Boston University graduated 6500 students altogether.  There were 205 PHD students. Eric Schmidt was the special speaker -- Ceo of google.  His message included  -- "this graduating class is more connected than any generation ever,  anywhere".  I do see that with this generation.   All our children  stay connected with friends all over the world.  With texting, skype, face time, face book,  cell phones, smart phones, and computers and Ipads, we have a whole new world.  With our 60's generation,  Fritz and I are  always just trying to keep up.  I think we are doing ok in the department.  We shall see if we can keep up with all the new technologies.  

Saturday we were happily off to shop in Boston. Rachel's knows all the places with great deals.  And then I was taking Fritz back to the art galleries.   That evening we had a fine party and celebration of Johan's accomplishments.  joined by his many friends as Rachel had arranged.  ( I mentioned about this in the blog before)       

Sunday we slept in.  The kids were up very very late.  Fritz and I walked in the beautiful Boston Gardens.  Dorian and Fred went bike riding along the St. Charles river, as Fritz had done the day before.    We just relaxed.  We did make a trip to the Isabella Gardner ART Museum in the afternoon.  It is a 3 story home full of art work collected over a lifetime.  Tapestries and sculptures, paintings of all kinds. Sort of a San Simeon Hearst Castle on a small scale.      Very small but enjoyable.  

Monday morning we were up early for a good start to Martha's Vineyard.  I must say, moving out of the apartment was quite the accomplishment.  All over Boston students were moving out of their apartments, getting ready for their trips home.  We just had suitcases to lug down stairs.  They had so much more.  Anyway, we rented a car, and then made our way back to the Beacon hill apartment, to lug 6 floors down all our suitcases.  I think there were 12 of them, plus all the handbags, shopping bags,  plus our left over groceries, etc.  Needless to say, we did not fit into a chevy Tahoe.  No worries.  a Mini van was a better fit for 6 people plus luggage and cheaper by $40 a day.  Yeah! We saved over $100 on this deal.    and then......  off we go.  Onward to Wood's Hole, in the boot of Cape Cod.  

We made it in plenty of time to meet the Ferry, drive a car on board ( new experience for us for sure)  and pleasantly make our way to Cape Cod  and Martha's Vineyard.    If you have never experienced the East coast, let me tell you that the first thing I ever noticed was the forests of green trees and bushes.  Whether you are driving  or flying.  the Land is mostly flat.  And Green. Bright Green in the Spring like we have experienced.  Weather changes from sunny to foggy, to beautiful at this time of year.  Humidity is unbearable  in the Summer.  BUT WE ARE HERE IN SPRING!  So wonderful.     Also you will notice the beautiful homes all neat "Salt boxes".  Cape Cod style is really a style. aged wood siding, or bricks.  Lots of white wood trimmed windows and doors.  And shuttered windows everywhere on every house.  No stucco walls like California, or mix of styles like in Santa Barbara.  No Italian villas, Spanish colonial styles and early or late Calif.  houses.  Just Cape Cod style.  I do find I like the continuity.  Adds a lot of charm to the area.  

Martha's Vineyard is the same.  It is an original fishing, whaling town from the 1600's.  In 1999 I went on an East Coast trip with Casey and Jill, and their 2 younger kids.  We went to Martha's Vineyard for a very short ferry ride, 5 hours wandering around Oak Bluffs and Edgartown, had a bowl of great Clam chowder and headed back on the last ferry of the day.  At that time, I had told myself,  I want to come back here.  It was one of the charmingest little cities I had every experienced.  I loved it.    In 2009 I had a girlfriend trip back here with marilyn ( celebrated 40 years of friendship)  and now finally I was able to take Fritz and at least part of my family back.       I can see why people have 2nd homes in the vineyard.  It really is a wonderfully peacefull place to visit, or live.  The Vineyard has about 15, 000 year round residents, and grows to about 80,000 in the summer.  Plus all the day visitors from the East coast looking to cool off along the coast.  

So in Martha's Vineyard we discovered grand cuisine Island style --- I loved the crab cakes at the Atlantic fish company. They are a work of Art.    Clam chowder and the lobster rools, Tomatoe Bisque and not to forget the truffle fries!  An expericence not to forget.    Needless to say we ate everything.    We stayed at the family compound of a friend.  This farm has been in their family I understand for 200 years.  It is heaven on earth to me.  So peaceful and relaxing.  I felt so at home. 

Tuesday was a nice day to take a scenic drive around the Island.  Its only 6 miles long, full of beaufitul scenic places to see.  Especially charming lighthouses.  After experiencing so many different weather conditions in our few short days, I can see why the light houses are so important.  There was wind, rain, fog, and quiet areas on the island, changing very quickly from place to place. 

Tuesday night we decided that it would be our special night to cook again.  When you are with Dorian and FRed.  They like to cook culinary delights and they like to eat well.   Soooooo   Fred made some wonderful Austrian style veenersnitichel (sp?)  and Dorian made a traditional Holland style Belgian Endive and ham dish.  I will try to replicate this next week for sure.  Rachel created a lovely strawberry whip cream cake.  It was most similar to the cover lately of Martha Stewart magazine.  

Our last day,  Wednesday, the sun came out  beautifully.  Perfect day for a nice bike ride.  Off we went to Edgartown and we road bikes around the cute little town. Then off of Chappaquidick island.    This island is small and quaint with miles and miles of sandy shoreline.  We biked to a hidden Japaneze garden called Mytoi.  A peaceful place to walk around.  Then we rode on to an area called Podge???  Not sure. But anyway,  this bridge became sadly famous when one of our past MA senators sadly had fatal episode here back in the 70's or early 80's.   It was a very narrow bridge, and very shallow water.  How someone drowned here is very surprising indeed.  

We continued riding around the island, going to the most eastern tip of the USA .  Closest to Spain.    then finally back to the Ferry to MV Island.  It was a 3-4 hour day of riding.  I am definitly the slow poke.  Tortoise and the hare..  I am the tortoise,  slow and steady, moving along and not at break neck speed.  But when we are all done,  guess who still has energy!!!!       

Thursday we are headed home.  It will be a very long day of travel.  Ferry crossing, driving,  waiting at the airport, long flights and bus trip home from LAx.  Right now I am typing away, thinking back through our week.  Thankful to be on our way home.  Thankful to have had the opportunity to experience  this special place.     

I think my dream would be to come back again, only as an artist, and bring other artist friends.  We all could paint all day some of the lovely scenes of the area.   I noticed an art school in Edgartown.  Hmmmmmm   Maybe for a future time.????  

Anyway, if you got this far,  that's pretty good.  Thank for joining me as I Journaled this far.  

LH

Happy Graduation Day for Johan!
 He now has his PHD.   Many years working on his dissertation to get this far!   He is an expert in European History, International Studies, and really an expert is all that is going on in the world daily.  You have a question?,,,,  You have heard of "Ask Jeeves". ... Well I say, "Ask Johan".  Watch out though,  you may get a 5 page answer to your question.  Be ready......

Just so everyone knows,  we are all so very proud of him.  It has been really a treat to be in Boston for this event with Dorian and Fred. Rachel  had been in touch with many east coast friends, who all showed up last night to celebrate with Johan and Rachel.  ( Rachel had planned a special surprise 30th Birthday and Graduation celebration for Johan).  The farthest friend came from Germany even. Amazing friends.

Special advise every one gives to Johan " Get a Job"........ Easier said than done these days. He has been applying all over the world actually.  Research fellowships,  teaching positions, etc etc.   We are hoping and praying for good opportunities for Johan and Rachel.   We shall see what their next opportunity will be.  ....  So if you have connections out there, be sure to let us know.

An Addition:   Johan's dissertation was "Party Systems change in the Netherlands: Intra-Party Cohesion, Discourse, and the Socio-Cultural Cleavage "  How is that for a mouthful!  Lots of research and over 50 interviews for the base of his work.

Tomorrow the adventure continues......  Off to Martha's Vineyard.  Rain or shine.  ....

Happy Graduation Day tomorrow for Johan!  We are so happy to be again in Boston, especially to celebrate with the family, Johan's graduation from the PHD program at Boston University.  The last many months have been busy ones.  I realize though that I have not updated this blog in way too long of a time.  So.... well..... I don't always write very much, so then.  via Facebook, I update with pictures.

Last week we celebrated Mother's day with Grandma Dottie and the family.  We had a nice visit and a dinner out with everyone.   So nice to all be together.  We are a traveling family. Now Dottie is off to Hawaii,  We are in Boston, Phil is off to Hawaii and Ryan takes off for Mexico next week.  What is it about his family.  We have the travelbug itch so easily it seems.
No really,  It really just happened, and its all just timing.  We all just happen to be on the road or the airplane.  

Yesterday, our travel started with a 3:00 AM wakeup call from the Taxi driver to pick us up, ONLY, he was supposed to be there at 3:00 PM. big difference.  Needless to say,  Fritz and I were awakened quite early and found it hard to sleep afterwards. After a wonderful luncheon for SBRM, and busy day for both of us.  a different Taxi driver picked us up at 3:00 PM and off we went to SB air bus, Lax, and finally on to Boston.  12hours all together.  But we made it, met up with Johan and Rachel who flew at the same time from San Diego.  Thankfully we were able to get our apartment early at 8:00 am.  We crashed and caught up on our sleep.

Dorian and Fred arrived also in the afternoon.  We are having a lovely dinner and relaxing around the nice apartment.  We are right by the Boston Gardens,  American's first public park.  A few blocks away is the Boston Library, American's first Public Library.  Boston is a city of firsts as you might imagine already.  First fire station, first medical school ( Harvard),  first public school. It has over 60 colleges within the Boston area, and 27 within the city limits.  Academia Capitol of the USA.  There are more students here than any other city in the US is what I understand.  Something like 60,000 graduates every year.  

 And we love visiting this place too.   Home of Fenway Park, the Celtics, the Patriots... so much in so little area geographically.  We are looking forward to Graduation Day for Johan tomorrow.  Big Day!

Time to catch up on the Zzzzzzzzzzzz!

Merry Christmas and Blessings for the new year!

“ For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, the Mighty God, the Everlasting father, the Prince of Peace. “ Isaiah 9:6

Greetings and blessings to all our special friends and family,

It is with gratitude and humbleness that we greet you this Christmas. We are a very blessed family and we have such wonderful family members and friends. So with this note to you, we just hope to catch up this those of you we may not have spoken to for a while. Our shared journey through life takes us many unexpected places. This year has been very memorable. So sharing on.........

Looking back over the year, these are some of our highlights.

January and February were very busy for the Harnsberger family. We were up and down the state of California -- Napa, Mammoth and San Diego. Our big family day was to help Rachel and Johan move into their new pad. A nice 2 story condo in the University Town Center area of La Jolla. After living with Mom and Dad for 5 months they were very excited to be in their own place again. Rachel began her job at UCSD Brady School of Business and Johan delved into his doctoral dissertation full time. At the end of February I was able to travel to Washington DC again with the SBCS 8^th graders.

March was the most emotional time for me. My Dad, Lou Schirm III passed away on March 16^th, just 2 weeks shy of his 91st birthday. At that time my Dad, known as Papa Bear by those who loved him, had a very bad fall while trying to get out of his chair in his apartment. It was only a few days later that he passed away. My brother Louie, Nicky and I were together as Dad entered heaven. One brief time while still at the hospital Dad had a vision of heaven. It was miraculous to witness, and was a sign for us Dad would be passing and he was entering that final stretch of his life.

A blessing in the midst of this what that Dad always wanted to share the made-for-the-movies story of how he met our Mom on VE day 1945. On April 1, just after what would have been his 91st birthday, his story was published in America in WW2 magazine along with his personal pictures. It was truly a blessing during such a time of grief.

At the end of May Fritz and I experienced a dream come true, traveling to Europe together for the first time. Our trip included stops in England, Holland, Belgium, France, Germany and Switzerland. Our first week was with Johan and Rachel in Holland and later Belgium, visiting both our families in these areas. We were in DemBosche and in Ghent and truly enjoyed the community, the food, the people and all that we could experience in such a short time. Then we were off to England to meet up with a tour group. The next 8 days included an overwhelming amount of sightseeing in five countries with a lot of driving, a cruises on the rivers Seine and Rhiene. Quite a trip! I am ready to go back =)

Our summer highlight is always our family times. We traveled to South Lake Tahoe for our Annual Schirm & Scribe Family Reunion. All the cousins were able to make it this year and we enjoyed ourselves so much. The family continues to grow with the new 3^rd generation. This year’s additions include baby Casen and baby Leo. We are 36 now.

Another highlight this year was a trip to Maui. Fritz and I had a very relaxing trip with Dotty, his Mother. Every day we enjoyed a beautiful sunrise or sunset. No agenda. Just surf in the morning, meet with new and old friends and relax in the sunshine.

Phil continues to work with Fritz but under his own corporation. “Upward Industries” He still surfs as much as possible travels to Hawaii and Mexico often. He loves living in Orange County and continues to enjoy being a homeowner. His special interests are economics and market trends.

Ryan and Tina, the newly weds, are living in La Jolla where Tina is in her 2nd year residency for General Surgery at UCSD Medical School. After working for himself for many years, Ryan took a job working for a construction company and has been project manager for the last 6 months. He enjoys his works and his time with Tina, and surf is still part of his day. They had a nice 2 weeks off in September visiting Santa Barbara and all their friends.

Rachel and Johan are enjoying life back in California and living in San Diego. Rachel plays hostess to her brothers and Tina often with “sibling” dinner about twice a month. She works full time for the Brady School of Business at UCSD and is enjoying being back in a jewelry studio in her free time. Johan is completing his Doctorate and will graduate in May 2012. This year he presented papers at Political Science conferences in Chicago and Philadelphia. He will also defend his dissertation in Boston early next year.

At Thanksgiving with family we were especially thankful for the time we are able to spend together. It has been a good year, and this month has been a time of contemplation and thankfulness. Fritz business continues to grow and we are amazed at the interest there has been in Marathon.

This Christmas we take time to remember the reason for our celebrations – the birth of the Christ Child – our Savior. As we celebrate and sing the beautiful songs, I am reminded how truly blessed we are.

In His Grace, Fritz and Lorette

Dear Family and Friends,

Today is a very special day -- Armistice Day or Veteran's day as we know it now. And its 11 -11- 11. Growing up I always remember going with our grandfather's to special memorial ceremonies -- 3 generations to remember our fallen heros. Maybe that is why its so important to me. My favorite Veteran of course is my Dad. After the Pearl Harbor attack on Dec. 7th, he finished up his semester at Notre Dame and he and his brother Mike signed up for the Army. He was a specialist on "bombs" -- detonating them. ( There is a title to this but I forgot what it was for now). But then since he had had so much experience with cars when he was a teenager, driving since he was 14, he ended up in the 17th port Transportation Corp. It is here that he excelled as a leader in support for the battles of DDay to Battle of the Bulge and more. In January 1945 in was in Ghent Belgium to unload the ships for support for the Battle of the Bulge. Here in met our Mom on May 6 1945. -- VE day in Belgium, before the official one. More of this story is on his web site at www.louschirm3.com

Anyway, I came across something I wrote Nov. 11, 2001 after visiting the Veteran's home in Yountville Napa Valley for the first time. Here it is. I am sharing it with my blogger family.

On this day I was visiting Dad, and I want to remember some events of that day . We went to the Veterans Hospital, where Dad was thinking of going. It was hard to figure out where it was, and it was raining, but we finally got to the right place. These are some of my impressions.

First, there was a wonderful procession of the color guard. One Soldier went forward - one for each areas of our armed forces. Every one who was able was asked to stand. I saw very very old men stand at the presentation of the colors. One gentleman could barely hold himself up. And he stood the whole time. We said the pledge of allegiance and then we sang the National Anthem. I had a hard time because I was choking up, and tears running down my face. I saw what it meant to love your country. There was then an invocation to our Lord - a very thoughtful prayer of recognition of God’s presence.

Then they addressed a table that was set right near us - under the Mia and POW flag. It had 6 spaces, one for each branch of the forces. Empty to represent the missing men. It was round to represent everlasting life and white for purity of motives. When the young man joins he joins because his motives are true and pure. There was a singe red rose in a vase with a red ribbon tied around it. ( it think for the missing who have their lives but are not forgotten ) and lemon slices for bitterness: Salt -- a pinch of it for tears and a Bible for faith in “One nation under God”. Wow!! I was really impressed. Then the other table near us got up. One man in uniform representing each of our forces and put a hat down on the table in each of the missing places.

Different people spoke: a senator, a Major and a General. One said “Freedom isn’t free” . I believe that is a quote originally from Roosevelt. How the younger generations need to understand this and live it.

One of the most special times of this day was this:

I met Veteran named Homer Fisher who is 103 and was a WW1 Veteran. I took a picture of this guy. ( hmm where is it now?) He was a very humble man. He lived to 108 at the Vet Home in Yountville. He was one of the last remaining WW1 vets of that time.

We also toasted and had a moment of silence with everyone in the room. AT 11-11—o1. That is the official time of the Armistice. On 11—11. And they observed this that day also. Dad and I sat at a table with a young lady who had volunteered from Chico State to come down and visit the Veterans. She explained that her History teacher had them serve the Vets to learn their stories and report what they learn back to the classroom. They were spending the whole weekend at the Vet home serving in many ways. Also, they said every Vet received a letter from the kids saying thank you for serving our country. Every Vet in the Home. Over 1100 Men and women.

I found this in my journal notes, as I was thinking about my Dad today, I remembered back to this day, and the other Veteran’s days I spent in Napa. Thank you Dad for teaching us to love our country and to honor those who have served us in the Armed forces.

Happy Veteran's Day! Remember those soldiers who are serving us now, putting their lives on the line each day.

To cousin Charlie in the air force, flying our soldiers home, we all salute you. We are so proud of you.

Hello Blogger friends, Its been a while since I posted. Actually the facebook page makes it pretty easy to post something really quick. Or with Instagram I can post a picture and send to friends. It seems since the last post I wrote many blogs, but all in my head. We are at a time in our life where we try to make every opportunity to travel. So Mammoth Lakes for R & R , or San Diego to see the kids are top on the list. September saw us off to Mammoth, and later in the month we went to Maui with Grandma Dottie. Both were very relaxing trips. Maui was amazing especially. I think what was most important was the time we were able to spend with people-- old friends, new friends, and just being together in such a beautiful place. Each day we saw a beautiful sunrise and an awesome sunset. I see a sunset as God's hand painting colors across the sky. It's only for a short time, and it's there for us to enjoy. Rainbow's are an extra special blessing.

So here are some pictures to remember the last month and a half. Hiking at Rock Creek in Mammoth Area with Fritz! Sailing in Maui with Grandma, and Kansas City time with Marilyn and that's Winston Churchill in the picture with me. I am really blessed to have so many special friends and family. Enjoying life and Praising God that I can!

Hello Family,

Do you remember the game hopscotch, like we used to play as kids? Well we still play it today. My version is playing hopscotch by driving up north or down south and visiting old friends or family and sleeping in different beds almost every night. I only usually do this when I am on my own though and Fritz is gone on a trip somewhere. So at the beginning of August, when Fritz was on his annual boat trip to the islands, I went to San Diego and spent a little time with each of our kids, and visited some special people along the way. I visited with an elderly cousin of Dad's named Martha Ann and her husband Tom. I love the older Generation. They are so precious and have seen so much. Martha Ann has traveled around the world over 35 times during her life time. I hope to have more visits with her and Tom. Then an evening with Phillip in Laguna Beach. We ate a wonderful Belgian Bistro and had a truly European menu. And Pomme Frites too. Then off to San Clemente Saturday morning with a breakfast with a dear friend Sandy. Next..... Down to San Diego to hangout with Rachel and Johan and a lovely lunch in La Jolla. Getting the gastronomic picture? After a shopping spree with my fun-to-be-with daughter, we had a lovely dinner with Tina and Ryan, and of course Rachel and Johan. Another bed, another night and off to church with Tina and Ryan, and a lovely breakfast somewhere in Carlsbad. After goodbyes, I was off to Escondido to visit with an old friend Peggy and her husband Steve. We were roomies at Cal Poly and in the same major. Our lives have paralled each other in many ways. I was so blessed to see her again.

So as if that isn't enough, I just had to do it again this last week. Fritz was going to be visiting his Mom and I took a trip up north this time to see my family. As a new Auntie to Casen, I was looking forward to seeing the little guy. Jill's 55th birthday would have been Thursday August 25th. To celebrate, I had the chance to go to lunch with some of her friends, Linda and Mary Jo and of course Brigitte. I celebrated my sister's birthday with her kids, ( and little Casen of course), and a great dinner by chef Brigitte.

Then hopscotch on up to Nicky's house in Napa.

On Friday Carrie and the kids came, we had another gastronomic experience at a Napa french style Cafe on the river, visit the cemetery where Mom and Dad are, swimming at Nicky's pool, and visiting with another one of Dad's friends Bob. Sweetie pies was the dessert of choice also that evening.

Saturday morning we were back down to Pleasanton for Brigitte's graduation party at the Brierleys. Very fun and great food also. Sunday in Napa, as was great to visit Nicky and Tom's church and listen to a visiting preacher named Dr. George Fox. The scripture was John 6 and the feeding of the 5000. Hmmmmm I think I just ate enough for all of that. Really though, it was a really good sermon and thought provoking about our walk with Christ. Then off to Fireside grill, say our good byes and I was headed down south again. ONLY I had a call from Ruby, another one of Dad's friends from the Meadows where he used to live. So I hopscotched on down to see her and had a lovely visit. She is a precious sister in the Lord. She shares the Lord where ever she goes. She used to eat breakfast with Dad every morning. I think of her often and I know she is praying for our family always.

So finally I hopscotched back to the Brierley's place and finished my adventure with a wonderful dinner by Chef Casey, and Kyle's girlfriend Aimee.

Monday, after visiting Jill's gravesite one more time.... I made the long drive home. Needless to say, I did not eat too much. Oh...... but there is a place in Shell Beach though.... I had to stop. DePaolo and Sons. Something like that-- a wonderful Deli and Bakery. I picked up dinner for Fritz and I for when I would make it home. And so the adventure ends for August and I am home. Its good to be home. My eye aches from the glare of the sun driving back. Laundry and gardening chores await me and of course Fritz is so happy to see me!!!

I am so blessed and touched by so many wonderful people in my life. Blessings and Kisses to all.

Hello blogger family,

We had such a fun time at our Tahoe family reunion / Cousins Camp 2011. Its amazing how time goes by over the years. Everyone was able to come, even if it was for short time. Thank you to Rene and Phyllis for helping to make this happen, and finding that extra house we needed to rent. It was a perfect fit for our weekend time. Park like yard, nice big kitchen and lots of beds for everyone. Perfect fit! Now we have 5 little ones to add to our pack and one on the way --" the little Trout" . Papa Bear and Mama Bear would be proud to see their legacy continue on in our get-to-gether times. In honor of Jill we had our traditional Thanksgiving Turkey dinner in July. We all stuffed ourselves to say the least. Thank you to everyone who made a supper human effort to join us and be a part of the Schirm / Scribe tradition. Blessings to everyone. From the Harnzblogger

Hello friends,

We had visitors this weekend. It was fun to have the "Other" Harnsberger family with us this weekend. The girls are growing up so much. Jennifer and Link braved the "Carmagedon" to make their way up here from Pasadena. It was fun just to hang out by the pool, run our feet through the sand, and visit together. Thanks guys for visiting us in Santa Barbara. It was great to have you here with us. Stay longer next time. We love you all. F & L

Happy 4th of JULY! Our country is now 235 years old. That is young in terms of world history but profound in the democratic founding of our country. This last year I read "1776" and I went to Yorktown, Mt. Vernon, Monticello etc etc. So patriotism is in my blood. I love to celebrate the 4th of July. Our Mom always told us that the United States is the greatest country because of what they sacrificed in WW2. I truly have come to believe this also.

Any way, I hope you all had a nice patriotic 4th of July. We made the rounds to different 4th of July parades and events in Santa Barbara. What a day... We went from parade to another parade, to an art show to the Spirit of 76 concert and a BBQ and then the fireworks show on the pier. You can do it all in Santa Barbara. The Montecito Village 4th of July Celebration is the best though. Wins my "Most Patriotic Event " in Santa Barbara. Its home town and very patriotic because of the leader Dana Newquist -- A true Reagan follower. Red, White and blue everywhere, Flags everywhere, music and cheering. Lots of children and fun cars of all kinds. If we are here next year, I told Fritz I want to decorate his car and be in the parade -- really get into the whole thing.

Anyway, Happy 4th of July. Here is a picture of Fritz downtown getting into the whole event also! We brought a little Boston with us here. That's a Red Sock's hat he has on. Someday.... Boston on the 4th. That would be fun too.

Happy Birthday America! I love you!

From the Harnzblogger herself,

MamaHarnZ

Happy 60th Birthday ! What a trip it has been. Here is a reflection from the blog of the trip.

Link to trip web site and pictures: Our Euro trip

Dear fellow travelers,

I have been thinking back over the last 2 weeks and thought I would write my reflections.

Looking back at the past 17 days, its amazing all we have done and all the places we have been. I have been inspired by the beautiful scenery, the interesting history we have relearned and experienced, & the incredible architecture we have seen in Europe traveling from country to country. Experiencing different languages, food, people have all been part of the experience. Most importantly are the people we meet. First of all, Rachel and Johan, Dorian and Fred hosting us in Den Bosche. Their kindness and hospitality was so thoughtful and we really enjoyed being with them. My birthday was extra special because they celebrated with us. Even Johan’s Grandma was with us. Fred and Dorian are wonderful chef’s. We had wild boar and homemade pasta, bolsa balls ( sp?) and a wonderful traditional cake make by Dorian. Riding bikes the next day to a castle for lunch was heavenly. What a special weekend I was able to experience. I had a very memorable birthday for sure.

Next, in Ghent it is always a priveledge to spend time with Anne and Francois, Denis and Colette and Diana. This family has been related to my family for 4 generations. Their mother Michette was friends with my mother Yette. My Bonne Mama was best friends with Michette’s mother, and their fathers were friends back to the late 1800’s. So 4 generations now with Dianna and Rachel and the next generation #5. Ghent is such an amazing town. I loved being here. Since the last time I was there, I dreamed of coming back again. Riding bikes on the cobblestones through back alleys and interesting places unknown but to the locals was a highlight too. As I have been working on Bonne Mama’s book, what she has written comes alive for me. I am motivated to finish the editing so that our children can understand the special heritage the Lord has given us. The Scribe family memories shall live on.

Our trip on the Insight tour brought in a whole another world for us. Meeting new people from all over the world -- Australia, Singapore, England, Canada, Colorado, Ohio, Tennessee, Missouri, California and more. Connecting with them, sharing our days with them. Experiencing the new places, traveling so many miles together was really special. We were together 8 days all together. Very short for a tour. This morning, our 9th day, we said so many goodbyes. I hope to meet each person again. Each was special and unique and I treasured the new friends. Thank you to Vera and Noel, Homai and Boman, Richard and Linda, Ron and Gwenn, Peter and Lynn, Andie and Vincento and so many more for making this trip memorable. I hope to see you all again in our journeys or in California. We were truly blessed by the Lord to have such a special trip.

As I write this we are flying back from France. Need to land in Dallas and get through customs, immigration lines, etc etc. We have a tight connection........ so here goes .....

Whew! we made it. We barely made it really to our next connection. Thank you to some of my prayer warrior friends out there on facebook. Since I had brought back tulip bulbs, of course I mentioned this on the form you have to fill out. I figured if it is not allowed, they would tell me and I toss them. NOPE! we had to do through another very SLOW long line for Agriculture with only 2 people working. Most of the line were people bringing in a lot of stuff from other countries like Vietnam, Mexico etc. We thought we missed our plane for sure.

Thankfully it was delayed by an hour!... With a special service cart, we were driven to the gate and made it on before they closed the door. And we got a first class seat! That means we could lay back and sleep! We were exhausted having been up almost 24 hours already. We flew to Albuquerque and then made again an instant last minute connection to Los Angeles. Our final leg then was to Santa Barbara. On board was a friend I knew from church and SBCS, who took us home afterward. Ahhhhhh! its good to be home. Thank you Lord for the USA and family and friends all over the world.

Next I will write out the 60 new things we have learned on this trip -- my final reflections. They are hand written right now. ........ Hope you find them interesting and funny too.

More later.......... to be continued. .......

All my love, Lorette

Hello Family and friends. Fritz and I are off on a European adventure. You can follow the travels at :

http://web.me.com/loretteharnsberger/Our_European_Adventure/Welcome.html

Dear Friends and Family,
Here is one of my favorite pictures of Dad. Its so hard to believe that Jill, Michy, Mom and soon Dad will be with the Lord. This picture was taken at King Harbor Yacht club. Louie came in very late last night. We have been at Dad’s bedside, again trying to keep him as comfortable as possible. A very sweet nurse named Luisa ( sp?) was by his side last night while we all got some much needed rest. Right now, I am playing some of Dad’s favorite songs. A long time ago I downloaded Itunes to his computer and we looked for songs that he liked. One song is “Dite te’ moi” that Mom had taught us to sing in French when we were about the age above. Its from the South Pacific musical. He loved Benny Goodman,a song called “Begin the Begee”. Also many French singers of course, and anything good to dance to. So I am sitting quietly with him. Nicky and Louie are taking a dinner break and Carrie and Evan are on the way over to say their goodbyes. Nicky and I have been able to talk with some of his many friends here at the Meadows. They all feel his loss. Dad is known for having a happy disposition and a joke in his pocket to share at lunch sometimes. I just love Ruby, Bob, Gill, Elsa, Don, Judy, Lucy, and Welby. -- So many more. They have been Dad’s special friends these last 4 years at the Meadows. Thank you to all his precious friends.

....... I stopped for a minute..... My Dad’s breathing is different. ....

Just as I was writing the above the sentences, and reflecting on how peaceful I felt, my Dad passed from this world to his heavenly home. It’s a privilege to be there as such a godly man goes home to be with the Lord. My Dad passed away at 6:40 pm tonight. We will update with more information later. Lou Schirm III March 30, 1920 to March 16, 2011

His Memorial web site is: http://louschirm3.com

Thank you for all the prayers and words of encouragement,
Lorette

Dear Friends, My Dad at this time is in the hospital. This morning when I went to pick up my Dad for church, I found him on the floor in front of his heater in pain, He had been yelling for help and calling my name as I was walking down the hall. Needless to say I was in shock. We think he fell in the morning, as he had not gone to breakfast yet. He heard my phone call for him that morning and couldn't answer the phone. When I arrived, he was there in front of his heater. I called 911 and I must say they came very quickly.
Dad has broken the C1 vertebrate of the neck. Though there must be swelling, and he is in pain, he has use of his hands and feet. He has to stay still though and is in a neck brace..
This morning, ( its now Monday morning) he ate some food for the first time. We are doing the best to manage his pain and plan for his future care.. Its only been 24 hours now since this all began. Cards or note would be appreciated as we can read to him. He can't talk very well at all. Keep him in your prayers and for wisdom on his care. Also pray that Dad would understand all that has happened and can help decide how he wants to proceed now.

This month we have been all over the state. Up to Napa, when Dad was in the hospital, down to San Diego to move Rachel and Johan into their new apartment. Then up to Mammoth to take care of things at our cabin and get a few skiing days in. Life is busy in the Harnzberger fast lane. Here is a great Snowman built for a snowman contest this last weekend. Someone, ( Not me) did a great job with this creation. All to celebrate Mammoth's record snowfall in December. We have had incredible weather with sunny blue bird days, no wind, and great skiing every day. Fritz tried out his new Snowboard and I tried out my cross country skies I bought at a garage sale last summer. Great fun and good exercise! Happy New Year and blessings this new Year!.