Monday, August 06, 2012
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Memorial Day Memories 2012
Happy Memorial Day! ( American Cemetery -- Normandy France)
" Greater Love has no man than to be able to give up his life for another". I am thankful for the note today at church addressing how it is important to remember those who have been lost, giving their lives for the life of others. Being a student of history and WW2 I have learned so much about all the wars that have been fought, and are being fought now.
Memorial day brings back memories for me of going to Forest Lawn in Glendale for the Memorial day services. Both my Grandfather's fought in WW1, with my Bonne Papa a prisoner of war through most of 4 1/2 years. 1914-1918. My Father and his brother served in WW2 and my brother was in Boy scouts earning his Eagle badge then. I have a picture in my mind always of the 3 generations walking forward and saluting the flag. My brother was the bugle player then.
This is how I spent my birthdays growing up. I am a Memorial day baby. And now after all these years its pretty special to think I can celebrate my birthday on such a special day.
One of the most touching places I have ever been is the American Cemetery in France, above the Omaha beaches of DDay. I went there in 2004 with Rachel and 2 of her friends. There were over 350 unknown soldiers here. Young men who were never able to see their families again, or perhaps even have a family. As we were walking around I met 2 such elderly men, who had actually landed at the DDay beaches. I don't remember their names now. I think one was Jack. He had landed on June 6 or Day 2. The other elderly gentleman had landed one week later. They were touring with Operation Overlord I believe. It's a tour group that took former Veteran's on battlefield tours with their families. They had been to the Dover shores, and now were in Normandy. What an experience for all of them. I am sure they are gone now, almost 8 years later, but the memory lives on.
Back to my story though now. I had said thank you for serving. I was honored to meet them, heroes from WW2. ( I just think of every VET as a hero). They told me they were not the heroes. Those men buried there in the fields were the heroes. They had given the ultimate sacrifice. They had had lives well lived. Families, children and grandchildren. These men in the field, each buried under one of the white crosses never had a chance. They are the heroes. And their were there to honor the fallen heroes.
I remember my Dad, my grandfathers, and Uncles. My Dad was in transportation Corp in Belgium for the Bulge. Uncle Clem was a tank driver, and was in battles from Cherbourg all the way to Germany and VE day. Uncles Joe, Clem, and Uncle Mike were in Battle of the Bulge. Joe was shot the first day in battle, but survived. I think about those who did not make it back. My Uncle Alain, Mom's brother, who died because he was part of the Belgian Resistance. He lived for 2 1/2 years in the concentration camp system, as a laborer. He was sent to a camp called Sonnenberg a political prisoner camp. He never made it back.
I do remember, and I honor these men because they understood the meaning of serving their country.
Now today. .... Memorial Day, I like to reflect back on that time. I understand better now than I did as young girl. Do remember those who have gone before you. It's not depressing but honoring. I am glad to have the memories of different Veteran's events honoring our fallen. And I am glad to share my birthday with such an honor.
And I will pray for those who are serving us now. Especially Cousin Charlie! That is an honor too. LH
Our Boston Trip May 2012
Sunday, May 20, 2012
He now has his PHD. Many years working on his dissertation to get this far! He is an expert in European History, International Studies, and really an expert is all that is going on in the world daily. You have a question?,,,, You have heard of "Ask Jeeves". ... Well I say, "Ask Johan". Watch out though, you may get a 5 page answer to your question. Be ready......
Just so everyone knows, we are all so very proud of him. It has been really a treat to be in Boston for this event with Dorian and Fred. Rachel had been in touch with many east coast friends, who all showed up last night to celebrate with Johan and Rachel. ( Rachel had planned a special surprise 30th Birthday and Graduation celebration for Johan). The farthest friend came from Germany even. Amazing friends.
Special advise every one gives to Johan " Get a Job"........ Easier said than done these days. He has been applying all over the world actually. Research fellowships, teaching positions, etc etc. We are hoping and praying for good opportunities for Johan and Rachel. We shall see what their next opportunity will be. .... So if you have connections out there, be sure to let us know.
An Addition: Johan's dissertation was "Party Systems change in the Netherlands: Intra-Party Cohesion, Discourse, and the Socio-Cultural Cleavage " How is that for a mouthful! Lots of research and over 50 interviews for the base of his work.
Tomorrow the adventure continues...... Off to Martha's Vineyard. Rain or shine. ....
Thursday, May 17, 2012

Last week we celebrated Mother's day with Grandma Dottie and the family. We had a nice visit and a dinner out with everyone. So nice to all be together. We are a traveling family. Now Dottie is off to Hawaii, We are in Boston, Phil is off to Hawaii and Ryan takes off for Mexico next week. What is it about his family. We have the travelbug itch so easily it seems.
No really, It really just happened, and its all just timing. We all just happen to be on the road or the airplane.
Yesterday, our travel started with a 3:00 AM wakeup call from the Taxi driver to pick us up, ONLY, he was supposed to be there at 3:00 PM. big difference. Needless to say, Fritz and I were awakened quite early and found it hard to sleep afterwards. After a wonderful luncheon for SBRM, and busy day for both of us. a different Taxi driver picked us up at 3:00 PM and off we went to SB air bus, Lax, and finally on to Boston. 12hours all together. But we made it, met up with Johan and Rachel who flew at the same time from San Diego. Thankfully we were able to get our apartment early at 8:00 am. We crashed and caught up on our sleep.
Dorian and Fred arrived also in the afternoon. We are having a lovely dinner and relaxing around the nice apartment. We are right by the Boston Gardens, American's first public park. A few blocks away is the Boston Library, American's first Public Library. Boston is a city of firsts as you might imagine already. First fire station, first medical school ( Harvard), first public school. It has over 60 colleges within the Boston area, and 27 within the city limits. Academia Capitol of the USA. There are more students here than any other city in the US is what I understand. Something like 60,000 graduates every year.
And we love visiting this place too. Home of Fenway Park, the Celtics, the Patriots... so much in so little area geographically. We are looking forward to Graduation Day for Johan tomorrow. Big Day!
Wednesday, December 21, 2011


Merry Christmas and Blessings for the new year!
“ For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, the Mighty God, the Everlasting father, the Prince of Peace. “ Isaiah 9:6
Greetings and blessings to all our special friends and family,
It is with gratitude and humbleness that we greet you this Christmas. We are a very blessed family and we have such wonderful family members and friends. So with this note to you, we just hope to catch up this those of you we may not have spoken to for a while. Our shared journey through life takes us many unexpected places. This year has been very memorable. So sharing on.........
Looking back over the year, these are some of our highlights.
January and February were very busy for the Harnsberger family. We were up and down the state of California -- Napa, Mammoth and San Diego. Our big family day was to help Rachel and Johan move into their new pad. A nice 2 story condo in the University Town Center area of La Jolla. After living with Mom and Dad for 5 months they were very excited to be in their own place again. Rachel began her job at UCSD Brady School of Business and Johan delved into his doctoral dissertation full time. At the end of February I was able to travel to Washington DC again with the SBCS 8th graders.
March was the most emotional time for me. My Dad, Lou Schirm III passed away on March 16th, just 2 weeks shy of his 91st birthday. At that time my Dad, known as Papa Bear by those who loved him, had a very bad fall while trying to get out of his chair in his apartment. It was only a few days later that he passed away. My brother Louie, Nicky and I were together as Dad entered heaven. One brief time while still at the hospital Dad had a vision of heaven. It was miraculous to witness, and was a sign for us Dad would be passing and he was entering that final stretch of his life.
A blessing in the midst of this what that Dad always wanted to share the made-for-the-movies story of how he met our Mom on VE day 1945. On April 1, just after what would have been his 91st birthday, his story was published in America in WW2 magazine along with his personal pictures. It was truly a blessing during such a time of grief.
At the end of May Fritz and I experienced a dream come true, traveling to Europe together for the first time. Our trip included stops in England, Holland, Belgium, France, Germany and Switzerland. Our first week was with Johan and Rachel in Holland and later Belgium, visiting both our families in these areas. We were in DemBosche and in Ghent and truly enjoyed the community, the food, the people and all that we could experience in such a short time. Then we were off to England to meet up with a tour group. The next 8 days included an overwhelming amount of sightseeing in five countries with a lot of driving, a cruises on the rivers Seine and Rhiene. Quite a trip! I am ready to go back =)
Our summer highlight is always our family times. We traveled to South Lake Tahoe for our Annual Schirm & Scribe Family Reunion. All the cousins were able to make it this year and we enjoyed ourselves so much. The family continues to grow with the new 3rd generation. This year’s additions include baby Casen and baby Leo. We are 36 now.
Another highlight this year was a trip to Maui. Fritz and I had a very relaxing trip with Dotty, his Mother. Every day we enjoyed a beautiful sunrise or sunset. No agenda. Just surf in the morning, meet with new and old friends and relax in the sunshine.
Phil continues to work with Fritz but under his own corporation. “Upward Industries” He still surfs as much as possible travels to Hawaii and Mexico often. He loves living in Orange County and continues to enjoy being a homeowner. His special interests are economics and market trends.
Ryan and Tina, the newly weds, are living in La Jolla where Tina is in her 2nd year residency for General Surgery at UCSD Medical School. After working for himself for many years, Ryan took a job working for a construction company and has been project manager for the last 6 months. He enjoys his works and his time with Tina, and surf is still part of his day. They had a nice 2 weeks off in September visiting Santa Barbara and all their friends.
Rachel and Johan are enjoying life back in California and living in San Diego. Rachel plays hostess to her brothers and Tina often with “sibling” dinner about twice a month. She works full time for the Brady School of Business at UCSD and is enjoying being back in a jewelry studio in her free time. Johan is completing his Doctorate and will graduate in May 2012. This year he presented papers at Political Science conferences in Chicago and Philadelphia. He will also defend his dissertation in Boston early next year.
At Thanksgiving with family we were especially thankful for the time we are able to spend together. It has been a good year, and this month has been a time of contemplation and thankfulness. Fritz business continues to grow and we are amazed at the interest there has been in Marathon.
This Christmas we take time to remember the reason for our celebrations – the birth of the Christ Child – our Savior. As we celebrate and sing the beautiful songs, I am reminded how truly blessed we are.
In His Grace, Fritz and Lorette
Friday, November 11, 2011

Dear Family and Friends,
On this day I was visiting Dad, and I want to remember some events of that day . We went to the Veterans Hospital, where Dad was thinking of going. It was hard to figure out where it was, and it was raining, but we finally got to the right place. These are some of my impressions.
First, there was a wonderful procession of the color guard. One Soldier went forward - one for each areas of our armed forces. Every one who was able was asked to stand. I saw very very old men stand at the presentation of the colors. One gentleman could barely hold himself up. And he stood the whole time. We said the pledge of allegiance and then we sang the National Anthem. I had a hard time because I was choking up, and tears running down my face. I saw what it meant to love your country. There was then an invocation to our Lord - a very thoughtful prayer of recognition of God’s presence.
Then they addressed a table that was set right near us - under the Mia and POW flag. It had 6 spaces, one for each branch of the forces. Empty to represent the missing men. It was round to represent everlasting life and white for purity of motives. When the young man joins he joins because his motives are true and pure. There was a singe red rose in a vase with a red ribbon tied around it. ( it think for the missing who have their lives but are not forgotten ) and lemon slices for bitterness: Salt -- a pinch of it for tears and a Bible for faith in “One nation under God”. Wow!! I was really impressed. Then the other table near us got up. One man in uniform representing each of our forces and put a hat down on the table in each of the missing places.
Different people spoke: a senator, a Major and a General. One said “Freedom isn’t free” . I believe that is a quote originally from Roosevelt. How the younger generations need to understand this and live it.
One of the most special times of this day was this:
I met Veteran named Homer Fisher who is 103 and was a WW1 Veteran. I took a picture of this guy. ( hmm where is it now?) He was a very humble man. He lived to 108 at the Vet Home in Yountville. He was one of the last remaining WW1 vets of that time.
We also toasted and had a moment of silence with everyone in the room. AT 11-11—o1. That is the official time of the Armistice. On 11—11. And they observed this that day also. Dad and I sat at a table with a young lady who had volunteered from Chico State to come down and visit the Veterans. She explained that her History teacher had them serve the Vets to learn their stories and report what they learn back to the classroom. They were spending the whole weekend at the Vet home serving in many ways. Also, they said every Vet received a letter from the kids saying thank you for serving our country. Every Vet in the Home. Over 1100 Men and women.
I found this in my journal notes, as I was thinking about my Dad today, I remembered back to this day, and the other Veteran’s days I spent in Napa. Thank you Dad for teaching us to love our country and to honor those who have served us in the Armed forces.
Happy Veteran's Day! Remember those soldiers who are serving us now, putting their lives on the line each day.
To cousin Charlie in the air force, flying our soldiers home, we all salute you. We are so proud of you.
Sunday, November 06, 2011

Hello Blogger friends, Its been a while since I posted. Actually the facebook page makes it pretty easy to post something really quick. Or with Instagram I can post a picture and send to friends. It seems since the last post I wrote many blogs, but all in my head. We are at a time in our life where we try to make every opportunity to travel. So Mammoth Lakes for R & R , or San Diego to see the kids are top on the list. September saw us off to Mammoth, and later in the month we went to Maui with Grandma Dottie. Both were very relaxing trips. Maui was amazing especially. I think what was most important was the time we were able to spend with people-- old friends, new friends, and just being together in such a beautiful place. Each day we saw a beautiful sunrise and an awesome sunset. I see a sunset as God's hand painting colors across the sky. It's only for a short time, and it's there for us to enjoy. Rainbow's are an extra special blessing.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Hello blogger family,
Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Tuesday, July 05, 2011

Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Dear fellow travelers,
I have been thinking back over the last 2 weeks and thought I would write my reflections.
Looking back at the past 17 days, its amazing all we have done and all the places we have been. I have been inspired by the beautiful scenery, the interesting history we have relearned and experienced, & the incredible architecture we have seen in Europe traveling from country to country. Experiencing different languages, food, people have all been part of the experience. Most importantly are the people we meet. First of all, Rachel and Johan, Dorian and Fred hosting us in Den Bosche. Their kindness and hospitality was so thoughtful and we really enjoyed being with them. My birthday was extra special because they celebrated with us. Even Johan’s Grandma was with us. Fred and Dorian are wonderful chef’s. We had wild boar and homemade pasta, bolsa balls ( sp?) and a wonderful traditional cake make by Dorian. Riding bikes the next day to a castle for lunch was heavenly. What a special weekend I was able to experience. I had a very memorable birthday for sure.
Next, in Ghent it is always a priveledge to spend time with Anne and Francois, Denis and Colette and Diana. This family has been related to my family for 4 generations. Their mother Michette was friends with my mother Yette. My Bonne Mama was best friends with Michette’s mother, and their fathers were friends back to the late 1800’s. So 4 generations now with Dianna and Rachel and the next generation #5. Ghent is such an amazing town. I loved being here. Since the last time I was there, I dreamed of coming back again. Riding bikes on the cobblestones through back alleys and interesting places unknown but to the locals was a highlight too. As I have been working on Bonne Mama’s book, what she has written comes alive for me. I am motivated to finish the editing so that our children can understand the special heritage the Lord has given us. The Scribe family memories shall live on.
Our trip on the Insight tour brought in a whole another world for us. Meeting new people from all over the world -- Australia, Singapore, England, Canada, Colorado, Ohio, Tennessee, Missouri, California and more. Connecting with them, sharing our days with them. Experiencing the new places, traveling so many miles together was really special. We were together 8 days all together. Very short for a tour. This morning, our 9th day, we said so many goodbyes. I hope to meet each person again. Each was special and unique and I treasured the new friends. Thank you to Vera and Noel, Homai and Boman, Richard and Linda, Ron and Gwenn, Peter and Lynn, Andie and Vincento and so many more for making this trip memorable. I hope to see you all again in our journeys or in California. We were truly blessed by the Lord to have such a special trip.
As I write this we are flying back from France. Need to land in Dallas and get through customs, immigration lines, etc etc. We have a tight connection........ so here goes .....
Whew! we made it. We barely made it really to our next connection. Thank you to some of my prayer warrior friends out there on facebook. Since I had brought back tulip bulbs, of course I mentioned this on the form you have to fill out. I figured if it is not allowed, they would tell me and I toss them. NOPE! we had to do through another very SLOW long line for Agriculture with only 2 people working. Most of the line were people bringing in a lot of stuff from other countries like Vietnam, Mexico etc. We thought we missed our plane for sure.
Thankfully it was delayed by an hour!... With a special service cart, we were driven to the gate and made it on before they closed the door. And we got a first class seat! That means we could lay back and sleep! We were exhausted having been up almost 24 hours already. We flew to Albuquerque and then made again an instant last minute connection to Los Angeles. Our final leg then was to Santa Barbara. On board was a friend I knew from church and SBCS, who took us home afterward. Ahhhhhh! its good to be home. Thank you Lord for the USA and family and friends all over the world.
Next I will write out the 60 new things we have learned on this trip -- my final reflections. They are hand written right now. ........ Hope you find them interesting and funny too.
More later.......... to be continued. .......
All my love, Lorette
Friday, June 10, 2011
Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Here is one of my favorite pictures of Dad. Its so hard to believe that Jill, Michy, Mom and soon Dad will be with the Lord. This picture was taken at King Harbor Yacht club. Louie came in very late last night. We have been at Dad’s bedside, again trying to keep him as comfortable as possible. A very sweet nurse named Luisa ( sp?) was by his side last night while we all got some much needed rest. Right now, I am playing some of Dad’s favorite songs. A long time ago I downloaded Itunes to his computer and we looked for songs that he liked. One song is “Dite te’ moi” that Mom had taught us to sing in French when we were about the age above. Its from the South Pacific musical. He loved Benny Goodman,a song called “Begin the Begee”. Also many French singers of course, and anything good to dance to. So I am sitting quietly with him. Nicky and Louie are taking a dinner break and Carrie and Evan are on the way over to say their goodbyes. Nicky and I have been able to talk with some of his many friends here at the Meadows. They all feel his loss. Dad is known for having a happy disposition and a joke in his pocket to share at lunch sometimes. I just love Ruby, Bob, Gill, Elsa, Don, Judy, Lucy, and Welby. -- So many more. They have been Dad’s special friends these last 4 years at the Meadows. Thank you to all his precious friends.
....... I stopped for a minute..... My Dad’s breathing is different. ....
Just as I was writing the above the sentences, and reflecting on how peaceful I felt, my Dad passed from this world to his heavenly home. It’s a privilege to be there as such a godly man goes home to be with the Lord. My Dad passed away at 6:40 pm tonight. We will update with more information later. Lou Schirm III March 30, 1920 to March 16, 2011
Thank you for all the prayers and words of encouragement,
Lorette
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Dad has broken the C1 vertebrate of the neck. Though there must be swelling, and he is in pain, he has use of his hands and feet. He has to stay still though and is in a neck brace..
This morning, ( its now Monday morning) he ate some food for the first time. We are doing the best to manage his pain and plan for his future care.. Its only been 24 hours now since this all began. Cards or note would be appreciated as we can read to him. He can't talk very well at all. Keep him in your prayers and for wisdom on his care. Also pray that Dad would understand all that has happened and can help decide how he wants to proceed now.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
This month we have been all over the state. Up to Napa, when Dad was in the hospital, down to San Diego to move Rachel and Johan into their new apartment. Then up to Mammoth to take care of things at our cabin and get a few skiing days in. Life is busy in the Harnzberger fast lane. Here is a great Snowman built for a snowman contest this last weekend. Someone, ( Not me) did a great job with this creation. All to celebrate Mammoth's record snowfall in December. We have had incredible weather with sunny blue bird days, no wind, and great skiing every day. Fritz tried out his new Snowboard and I tried out my cross country skies I bought at a garage sale last summer. Great fun and good exercise! Happy New Year and blessings this new Year!.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND BLESSINGS IN THE NEW YEAR!
“ For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, the Mighty God, the Everlasting father, the Prince of Peace. “ Isaiah 9:6
Greetings to all our friends and family. We hope this letter finds you with joy and happiness as we celebrate the Christmas season, and the joy of the birth of the Christ child.
As we journey through life, we all cross many bridges. They are milestones, precious moments, and memories that cause us to stop and consider where we are going. This has been a year of many bridges for us, both high and low. I would like to share the stories of some of these times with you.
In early March Ryan proposed to a wonderful young lady, Tina Clause. We have known her family for years here in Santa Barbara. Needless to say, we were thrilled. Tina graduated in June from UCI Medical School and began her residency at UCSD at the end of June. On September 19, Ryan and Tina were married on a beautiful day at the Santa Barbara Zoo. They honeymooned in Tahiti, and make their new home in La Jolla. We are delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Harnsberger to the family!
In March of this year, the Schirm and Scribe families came together in Napa to celebrate my Dad’s 90th birthday. It was great to be together, and so amazing that he is still with us today. My sister Nicky and her husband Dr. Tom Suard continue to attend to all the details that keep our Dad with us. Papa Bear continues to enjoy his life at the Meadows of Napa. Each month I make the drive up to Northern California to visit with him and check in with the rest of the family that lives there: the Suards, Brierlys and the Johnson family.
In June, after school ended, I realized it was time for a change. I passed the art teacher baton on to a new teacher, and officially retired as the SBCS art teacher. As much as I loved teaching, I felt the calling to cross that bridge in life, mainly to help care for family members and spend more time with Fritz. I continue to enjoy art with my own paint brush. Check out some of my recent paintings at lorettespalette.com. I am also writing a book about my grandmother, and rewriting my art lessons as a how-to book for teachers. Most recently I was able to go to Orlando and Disneyworld after Thanksgiving with my niece Carrie and her family, through the “Make a wish foundation”. I am so happy I was available to do this.
At the end of July, Rachel and Johan moved back to California. Johan defended his dissertation proposal in November and passed. He continues to work on this big project and hopes to have his Doctorate next year. Rachel has been applying to various jobs at non-profits and universities throughout Southern California. Having worked at Harvard for the last 2 1/2 years, she has a wealth of experience with special events, government affairs, and international relations. Rachel and Johan hope to make their new home in San Diego soon, but with the job market being what it is, the process has been slower than they would like. They are currently living with us in Santa Barbara as they make this transition in their life.
At the end of August, the Schirm family was able to once again get together for our annual family reunion: this year it was in Santa Cruz. This is always a wonderful time for the whole family, but this year it had special significance as we got to spend a wonderful week with my sister Jill. Jill had been battling colorectal cancer for four years and on September 14th, Jill passed away from this life to her new heavenly home. Her passing leaves a hole in my life, as my sisters have always been my best friends. She was truly an amazing person. Her energy, enthusiasm, kindness, love for all, and joy of life were an inspiration to all. She was loved by so many, with over 750 attending her service on Sept 25. A tribute to Jill can be found at brierleyblogger.com
Fritz continues to be successful with his business during these unpredictable times, carefully watching over the assets entrusted to them. Marathon Investment Programs was in Forbes Magazine again this year: this time in the billionaires issue, in an article that highlighted the “Leading Wealth Managers of Southern California”. Today, as I am writing this letter, it is Fritz’s 61st birthday. How this year has flown by. He is the best looking 61 year old in my book. He continues his daily swims and bike rides and has picked up a new hobby, go-cart racing.
Phillip works full time with Fritz from his own office in Orange County. His knowledge and expertise play a vital role in the success of the company. He loves his life in Orange County. He has many wonderful friends and roommates that he enjoys hanging out with and going on surf trips with. This year he has been to Mexico, Hawaii, and Nicaragua. Also, being located closer to Ryan, they can see each other more often.
May this season of Christmas celebration be one filled with family and friends. We are so grateful for you. In this day of Facebook, emails, blogging, texting, etc. -- we are thankful for all the unique ways to keep in touch with each of you. As I look back on 25 years of Christmas letters, I realize these are the “original” blogger pages. As we journey through life and cross those different bridges in our lives, it is nice to know we have so many friends and loved ones we care about. You are all truly special to us.
With Love from the Harnsbergers
Fritz and Lorette,
Phillip, Ryan and Tina Harnsberger
Rachel and Johan van Gorp
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Wednesday, November 03, 2010

Sometimes when you loose someone very close to you, it is comforting to remember them in some special way. For me, painting a picture is a way I can remember and grieve my loss of a special person-- this time it is my little sister Jill. This is a picture taken during a walk with my sister Jill and her husband Casey, on a spring morning in Cayucos, near San Luis Obispo. We are walking towards Morro Rock. I liked the picture, though I had never thought of painting it. In the distance are 5 kids, representing their 4 children plus one. Maybe I should add the future Grandson who is on the way now too. The Rock represents for the solid foundation they have established for their family as Christians.
I love landscape pictures, I think mostly because I see God’s beautiful creation, especially in sunrises, or sunsets, and clouds. God’s signature - His Creation -- is so evident in nature and most importantly is present in His people. Each person is unique. And I celebrate Jill and the special person she was to me all her life. She walked closely to the Lord, especially these last 4 years. Now she is walking with Him.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Dear blogger friends,
On September 19, our son Ryan was very happily wed to his bride Tina. It was a very wonderful day in Santa Barbara in so many ways. Their love for each other was so apparent to everyone there. Ryan met Tina at our church about 1 ½ years ago. Our two families have known each other for many years. Little did we ever know that our families would be joined together in such a special way. Both of our kids went to Santa Barbara Christian School, where I have been a teacher for 14 years. I taught both her sisters, and I taught Tina and watched her grow up from 1994 – 98, when she graduated from SBCS 8th Grade.
The wedding site was at the Santa Barbara Zoo. This last summer, all our days were very foggy, even up to the day before the wedding. The night before the wedding a thick fog hung over the Zoo. YET On Sunday we had an incredibly beautiful day. Absolutely perfect. Thank you Lord. The sun was out, the climate enjoyable, and the setting for this wonderful union was perfect in every way.
Thank you to the Clause family for hosting such a beautiful wedding, to Annie Williams who created beautiful flower arrangements with her wonderful crew of ladies, Rachel who created the bouquets for the girls, and boutineers for the guys. A young friend Shane created our video, and cousin Mike was our DJ. Soooooo much fun! The many talents of the Clause family was so amazing. From the invitations by Cindy, the wonderful Italian cookies by Tina's aunts, to Tina cooking and making all the carmel sauce for the favors of the wedding. Tina and her Mom's vision for the whole wedding was beautiful.
For me, in the midst of the joy of this union, was the bittersweet memory of my sister Jill, who had passed away only 4 days before. It was a very emotional time for me, as anyone could imagine. I am thankful that I had had some special time with Jill beforehand, say my farewell to my precious sister and that I was able to begin to grieve her loss ahead of time. I missed my family from up north, as they were not able to come. Ryan gave a short tribute to his Aunt Jill and Tina's Grandfather before they cut the cake. It was really touching for me.
For us, the wedding and especially the union of these two wonderful young adults was beyond anything as parents we could have hoped for. I am so amazed by it all. God is so good to us. Ryan and Tina went to Tahiti for their honeymoon and are now settling into married life in San Diego. "A man's heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps". Proverbs 16:9.